Do You Have a Problem with Alcohol?

This
web page contains the following three sections:
Adapted
from
the book
How to Quit Drinking Without
AA
(for more about the book, click here)
Do
You Have a Problem with Alcohol?
"Everything
free from falsehood is strength."
-May
Sarton
Is
your drinking causing problems for you? It's up to you to find out. Here, you can take a couple of tests that will help you evaluate your situation.
Take
a look at yourself. Basically you know your own condition.
Do you feel you have a problem with alcohol? Somewhere deep
inside, you know the answer. Look inside to see what you can learn.
Here's
your first test:
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Do
you sometimes think you have a drinking problem?
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Yes [] No
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Your
intuition is almost always correct. What you answer
is probably true.
But
how can a one-question test tell you anything? It's simple.
Most of the time, you deny the problem or hide from it by
making excuses. It's only natural to protect something so dear
to you. But your defenses break down once in a while.
So
if you sometimes think you have a problem, you almost
certainly
do.
Imagine
yourself the morning after a bad drunk. Your
body feels brittle and weak, your defenses shattered. You're completely
nauseated and you're in pain. This morning you don't have a morning drink to calm yourself
and, for the moment, you truly feel the misery alcohol is causing you.
This
morning, you promise yourself you won't drink again. But by the end of the day, your
defenses
return. You begin to excuse yourself for "one bad night."
You didn't eat enough last night, or you were really mad
at somebody, or you find some other excuse for having drunk too
much. Then you allow yourself to have another drink.
You say to yourself, "It's okay now...I was just having a couple
of
problems yesterday."
You
might go through this hundreds of times before you finally
recognize the pattern. Almost everybody does.
So how can you recognize the
pattern of alcoholic drinking, also
called
"addictive drinking" or "problem drinking?" Here's an
easy-to-use definition to guide you. Alcoholic drinking is drinking too much, too often,
and drinking out of control. Let's look at this 3-part definition.
Once
again, trust your own judgment. If you feel you're drinking
too much and doing it too often, your feeling
is probably correct. If you feel it is happening because
you can't control it, you are probably addicted. If alcohol eliminates your
self-control, or if your drinking alters your
personality, you almost certainly have a problem.
Pay
attention to your deepest feelings. Try writing them down. Write how you
feel about your drinking, how you
feel about how much and how often you drink, and what kind of
control you have over it. You don't need to analyze it.
Just
say what you feel...it may surprise you.
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Instructions.
Answer the following questions honestly. Then score yourself according to
the key.
- Have you ever
thought you should cut down on your drinking?
[] Y [] N
- Has your
drinking caused any problems for you with school, with college, or with your
work?
[] Y [] N
- After you’ve
had a drink or two, do you sometimes continue to drink for a longer
period of time than you originally intended?
[]
Y [] N
- Has anyone
ever told you that you drink too much?
[] Y [] N
- Do you drink
when you’re alone?
[] Y [] N
- Have you ever
thought that your life might be better if you could stop drinking?
[] Y [] N
- Have you ever
felt guilty about something you did while drinking?
[] Y [] N
- Do you ever
lie about how much you’ve had to drink?
[] Y [] N
- Do you
sometimes drink to build self-confidence?
[]
Y [] N
- Do you ever
have a drink in the morning to steady your nerves or to get rid of a
hangover?
[] Y
[] N
- Do you tend to
finish your first drink faster than most people?
[] Y
[] N
- Have you
noticed that you’re drinking more now or drinking more often than
you used to?
[] Y [] N
- Do you crave a
drink at a certain time each day?
[] Y [] N
- Do you
sometimes wake up in the morning after a night of drinking and find
that you can’t remember some of what you did or said the night
before?
[] Y
[] N
- Have you ever
lost a friend because of your drinking?
[] Y [] N
- Have you ever
been arrested because of your drinking (including any arrests for
driving violations)?
[] Y [] N
- Have you ever
been hospitalized or spent time in a treatment program because of your
drinking?
[] Y [] N
Key:
If you answered Yes to any one of these questions, this is a sign that
you have a problem with alcohol. If you answered Yes to any two, the
chances are that you do have a problem with alcohol. If you answered Yes to
three or more, you definitely have a problem with alcohol.
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